There
are different types of people in the society; people who hate books, people who
have to read books (like it or not), who like reading books, who love reading
books and people who see books in between physiological needs and safety in Maslow's hierarchy of needs. In the last
category, you will also find that there are some who are addicted to buying
books.
If
you fall into the last category, you are the type of a person who happens to
visit a bookstore every couple of weeks just to check the latest arrivals. When
you visit the bookstore and see new books, you feel overwhelmed and have the
urge to buy a new book. So, you will buy, glance through few pages and put it
aside to read it when you finish whatever you were doing before you bought the
book. Your schedule will be hectic, you will come across many things and your
new book will wait for you, wherever you put it. Although you are busy, deep
inside you will always know that there is a book waiting for you to read.
But,
over the next couple of weeks your feet will drag you to the bookstore on your
way home. Although you still remember the book you bought last week, which is
waiting for you, you will see another must-have book on a shelf. You will do
the math in your head, make a schedule that you will have a plenty of time to
read and reason out yourself why you should be buying this new book.
Ultimately, your rationale will win. You will buy this new book and the book
you bought last week will have to shift into your bookshelf.
If
you too are like this, it is time to admit that you are addicted to buying
books. I know this because I am an addict. I have so many books just sitting in piles around my house waiting to
be read, and what do I do several times every single month? I keep buying new
books. I keep buying although I know that I should finish what I already have
before buying anymore, but I just can't!
I also learnt that I am not alone. If you’re like me, and you too are addicted to buy
more books than you can read, you too must have wondered how you are going to
stop this habit. It is not like that we can stop this habit at once. Every
month I think of ending this habit, considering the financial aspect of it. It is really hard, but no one can afford to be
broke in the middle of each month.
Interestingly,
while surfing the net to seek for a way to control my habit, I came across the
word, bibliomania. Bibliomania is one of the several unusual behaviors
associated with books and it is characterized by collecting of books which is
neither useful to the collector or to any great intrinsic value to a genuine
book collector. Bibliomaniacs are different from bibliophiles. According to Wikipedia, bibliophilia or bibliophilism
is the love of books. Accordingly a bibliophile is an individual who loves
books. A bookworm (sometimes pejorative) is someone who loves books for their
content, or who otherwise loves reading.
However,
bibliomania is different from just hoarding your bookshelves with books. Bibliomania can be a symptom of obsessive–compulsive disorder which
involves collecting books to the point
where social relations or health are damaged. Surprisingly there are more
abnormal behaviors involving books including book-eating (bibliophagy),
compulsive book-stealing (bibliokleptomania) and book-burying (bibliotaphy).
Experts on the internet suggest that
making a rule that you will read some number of books you currently own before buying
another one could help my bad habit. This
will let you control your book purchasing habits without requiring that you
wait several years until you've read the entire existing selection. It also
encourages you to read more, knowing that you can reward yourself with a new
book soon enough, and not feel guilty about it.
Also, make a list of books you want to
buy. Try to stick to it. This will also help you to reduce the number of books
you buy. You can also try the Kindle or e-versions of books. But, some people
find it difficult to read the e-versions, therefore they stick with the
ordinary books. If none of these are helping, try out the ‘buy one, get rid of
one’ rule. If you buy a book,
immediately get rid of a book you already have and have finished reading. Either
donate it to a library, one in need or give it to a friend. Best of all get a
library membership and borrow books to read. Visit the library instead of
visiting a bookstore. Keeping away from the bookstores will surely help you.
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